lets find out together, shall we?

I have this friend that I have never met. She doesn't know we are friends. It's more one sided. I follow her blog. I love her words, her thoughts, her feelings, her ideas. Well she wrote something today that helped me. She usually does. Her words come out in a way that I feel can help just about anyone. She makes me love words and their usage, it's a skill that I don't posses. So I stand from the sidelines and admire. Our situation is a little different, but the idea is the same. Here is what she was thinking today...

i will get married when i meet the man i want to marry. you're not him? no worries, let's have our wine, enjoy it, and why shouldn't we have another date?

i am not in the business of looking for a husband. i am just trying to live a life, fully and deeply.

how can i answer the question of what i want when asked on the first date? because really the question is what i want with you and i hardly know you-it's only the first date! what i want is to find out.

to find out, what i want, with you.

i want to live my way into the answer.

and lets find out. together, shall we?


Isn't that great? Would you like to be her friend to? She will make you feel right at home. Check her out here... http://or-so-i-feel.blogspot.com Thanks Meg.

The best for last.

These lyrics are amazingly perfect. Life can hurt sometimes, but you can't be afraid to play. I'm taking the chance.

Wait, do you see my heart on my sleeve?
It's been there for days on end and
It's been waiting for you to open up yours too baby, come on now
I'm trying to tell you just how
I'd like to hear the words roll out of your mouth finally
Say that it's always been me
That's made you feel a way you've never felt before
And I'm all you need and that you never want more
Then you'd say all of the right things without a clue
But you'd save the best for last
Like I'm the one for you
You should know that you're just a temporary fix
This is not rooted with you it don't mean that much to me
You're just a filler in the space that happened to be free
How dare you think you'd get away with trying to play me
Why is it every time I think I've tried my hardest
It turns out it ain't enough, you're still not mentioning love
What am I supposed to do to make you want me properly?
I'm taking these chances and getting nowhere
And though I'm trying my hardest you go back to her
And I think that I know things may never change
I'm still hoping one day I might hear you say
I make you feel a way you've never felt before
And I'm all you need and that you never want more
Then you'd say all of the right things without a clue
But you'd save the best for last
Like I'm the one for you
You should know that you're just a temporary fix
This is not rooted with you it don't mean that much to me
You're just a filler in the space that happened to be free
How dare you think you'd get away with trying to play me
But, despite the truth that I know
I find it hard to let go and give up on you
Seems I love the things you do
Like the meaner you treat me more eager I am
To persist with this heartbreak, running around
And I think that I know things may never change
I'm still hoping one day I might hear you say
I make you feel a way you've never felt before
And I'm all you need and that you never want more
And we'll say all of the right things without a clue
And you'll be the one for me and me the one for you